poppetawoppet:

riotbrrrd:

coolfayebunny:

dantecain:

When I complain about being a ‘gifted’ kid who grew into a talentless adult I don’t mean that I’m not trying to work on my talents or anything

I mean that the ‘gifts’ I had are useless

Reading books above my age isn’t a talent when I’m not eleven

Knowing big words isn’t a talent when I’m not a kid, it’s just growing up

It’s just a weird thing that happens and it feels shitty when you’re brought up being told you’re an exceptional child only to realise as an adult you’re just average

This

I did a lot of reading about gifted kids and especially gifted adults when I got my “diagnosis” because I was told I was gifted at 23 and well, it serves no purpose to have a confirmation that you’re gifted at 23

Thing is, gifted children are not amazingly better than everyone else. Gifted brains just don’t work the same so they build their skills in a different order

Basically when you’re very young, most people brain learn social skills and how to interact with their peers, but gifted brains are already at the next step which is how to understand and interact with the world

That makes the stereotypical young children that are very good at math, always asking questions about how things work, very upset when they don’t know a thing

But the thing is, when everyone gets older, they’ve mastered most social skills and now turn towards understanding the world

But the gifted children have already mastered that part and are turning towards how to build social skills. Except there’s no one left to teach us about that! Because we’re late to that party

Long story short, at the end everyone, gifted or not, goes through all the necessary steps to make functioning adults, so the difference that was obvious as a child has disappeared

But us gifted people often end up with social anxiety and impostor syndrome because we are actually less equipped than others to face a world that taught everyone to be confident and talk to people while we were busy reading books above our age

……………that last paragraph.

damn.

zechery:

Me: hey do you know what serotonin is?

Brain:

This blog is pro salt and vinegar chips.

melissavercos:

Me, on Earth:

gelana78:

green-aries:

Progress not perfection

Oh my god. This is it. This is it exactly. Like exactly.

windycitytvcher:

“Hey, how much was your ticket for Infinity War?”

milajedora:

The sun will shine on us again.

sterek:

Get yourself someone who loves you as much as Stiles Stilinski loves Derek Hale.

feminismandmedia:

Magical.

chillwhiskey:

evgeni vladimirovich malkin, who had to hide out in an airport so he could sneak out of russia to play with the penguins, who only wants to play penguins hockey, who wants to play his whole career here with sid, who believes in himself and his team more than anybody, is a 3-time Stanley Cup Champion with the pittsburgh penguins

refrigeratorbucky:

You’ll break them.

                             Only the breakable ones. You are made of marble. 

tommeraass:

I act like, I know that I’m doing, but I don’t.